Your ability to fuck girls way out of your league looks wise is far more about your environment than anything else

physically writing the things you want down is a cheat code to getting them to appear in your life. but it’s why you have to be extremely careful about what you write down reflectively. try writing down “I feel like a loser/retard/cuck” and see where that gets u.

Ur 30s should feel like the gun is in ur hand

best way to quit your vices is to overdo them to the point where they become mind numbingly boring

the best negotiator I’ve ever known taught me to be absolutely shameless when trying to get the best deal. those (uncomfortable) lessons have permanently conditioned me to be outrageous from the outset.

the ability of men to just instantly fall in love with chicks and lowkey obsess over them for years is understudied

anyone employed would get huge value from sitting down with themselves and honestly assessing what category they fall into.

If ur under 40 you’ve almost certainly not had the worst day of ur life yet. Worth remembering the next time ur a little bitch about something

The most normie and infantile mindset to have is that someday the work will be over and u can relax and that you’ll be alive to enjoy it.

most dudes live in museums of their former selves. gear from hobbies they gave up on, clothes from a version of themselves they've outgrown. sad.

this is why you have to live a life of extremes - and ideally never stop. work like a madman, but then disappear to asia solo travelling for a month. work 70 hour weeks and then spend 20 hours in fabric etc etc

Ive been spending a lot of time thinking about lifemaxxing and what every day of my week would look like if it were “perfect” within the confines of my current mission. highly recommend.

Always hilarious to me that vision boards - something almost exclusively done by chix in their early 20s - is actually a highly effective way to bring things u want into ur life

The reason why this advice is insanely popular is because it allows dudes to opt out of all sorts of embarrassment and actually putting themselves out there, whilst feeling like they’re doing something proactive

I think about this post a lot.

for many people the biggest blocker is that they are actually scared of being THAT guy. terrified that people will actually look to them, petrified that their words will actually carry weight. easier and far more comfortable to keep lurking in the shadows.

1 thing no one tells you about addiction is how much it fucks your risk tolerance

i think if most people audited their time they would be staggered at just how little time they spent overall on their goals and then on the shit that actually moves the needle.

Admire anyone who can deliberately create a new arc for themselves