Becoming successful is not luck. It’s math. If your probability of success is 1/100 and you try 100 times, you have a 100% chance of success.

One of the most underrated skills you can learn is the ability to ignore your mood and stick with the plan.

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5 reasons why you should go for it: - You’re gonna die. - Fuck your mood. Follow the plan. - The price of authenticity is being disliked. - Your new life will cost you your old one. - The only way out of uncertainty is through it.

The fastest way to become appropriately confident is to become dangerously competent.

I don't care how talented you are or how much potential you may have, if you can't consistently do things when you don't feel like doing them, you'll never build anything worth having.

A sign of an intelligent person is their ability to learn from anyone, even those they dislike.

Sooner or later you realize everything comes down to your ability to stick with the plan despite whatever emotions you may feel.

The fastest way to spot a successful person: watch how quickly they make decisions, respond to messages, and turn ideas into action. Speed is king.

You become an adult when you realize everything eventually comes down to your ability to stick with what you said you’d do despite whatever emotions you may feel.

The most successful people I know have a high tolerance for being misunderstood.

Lack of focus has killed more dreams than lack of talent.

A lot of women reach out to me asking how I'm going to "do it all" now that I'm having a baby. My honest answer: I'm not. I wanted to write this because so many moms tell me they feel like they're failing because they don't have it all at once and it really breaks my heart. The last twelve years of my life went into building my business and building myself into the leader I am. I'm proud of that. I don't expect myself to put in the same effort over the next ten. Could I? Sure - I could hire every nanny and every service money can buy and keep running at the same pace. I just don't WANT to. I really want to actually raise my kids and build a family, so I will be making a tradeoff. It is a fact, not opinion, that you can’t have it all at the same time. Why: MATH. Depth takes time, and time is finite. At some point we all have to decide - of the things that matter to me - WHICH MATTERS MORE…NOW. And then we make a trade. When you have finite resources, you need to decide where you allocate them against unlimited options. Determining that something is important, but less important TO ME, RIGHT NOW, is not setting. It’s making a decision based on priorities. Everyone has the ability to make these choices, they're just hard because you feel like you're telling yourself, and everyone who looks at you, that something is not important because you're not prioritizing it. That’s untrue. You’re just saying it's not AS important TO ME, RIGHT NOW. We work so hard to create optionality in our lives. But having optionality - in and of itself - is not valuable. Options are only valuable when exercised. And when you exercise those options, you need to walk through one door, which by definition (sometimes), means you cannot walk through another. We make a commitment by eliminating options. And all the best parts of life sit on the other side of eliminating options and going all in. When you get married, you eliminate the option of other partners. When you have kids, you eliminate the option of not having kids. When you buy a house on the beach, you eliminate the option of having a house on a mountaintop. It doesn't mean you don’t like mountain tops. You just decided that this was more important to you now. Some decisions are reversible. Others aren't. To me, right now, I want to have a child and I want to be a present mother. It’s not the choice that everyone will make, or should make - do whatever you want. This is the choice that I’m making. For me. Right now. And I want every woman who reaches out to me asking what I'm going to know. Because I think the willingness to make a trade prevents you from settling. Because without making a conscious choice, a trade off will be made no matter what - but it won't be based on what we deemed most important, but by what the world around us deemed most convenient. And that might not be what we want most. This has been pulling on me for some time now and I didn't get a chance to sit down and write it. TLDR: I will not have it all. I will have what I want most at that time. And that’s perfectly fine with me. I hope you do the same - whatever that is for you.

Harsh Truth: People won’t respect you at the bottom, they’ll ignore you in the middle, and they’ll hate you at the top. You’ll never get everyone’s approval. So just do you.

An underrated cheat code in life: being easy to work with. Show up early. Be kind. Do more than your share. Be reliable and consistent.

The most successful people I know have a high tolerance for uncertainty and an even higher tolerance for boredom.

Community Note is right. It's ~63%, not 100%. Somehow I’ve managed to function and become successful in business despite being atrociously bad at math. lol. not a secret you can ask my team. Here's what I meant to say: 1 attempt = 1% odds. 100 attempts = 63% odds. 500 attempts = 99.3% odds. Persistence doesn't guarantee success. It does compounds your probability until the math is eventually on your side. And now we know that the worse you are at math…. the less time it takes🫣😂😅

Never bet against someone who just keeps showing up no matter what happens.

If you’re not ready to be hated, you’re not ready to be great.