NewClaim a free social report
Content
Discover
Leaderboards
Latest blog
How to benchmark your competitive landscape with Socialpruf
How to Benchmark the Competitive Landscape
instagram analytics
Similar Accounts:
followers
57.8K
impressions
7.32M
likes
70.6K
comments
13.2K
posts
54
engagement
1.14%
emv
$181K
Average per post
136K

Key Metrics

Distributions

Top Content

Comment HEY and I’ll send you my free guide She sat next to him on purpose. He never noticed. The freeze isn’t shyness: it’s your nervous system reading “say hi” as danger. And from her side of the bench, silence just looks like a no. #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #approachanxiety #datingtips #datingcoach datingtips relationshipadvice datingusa nycdating londondating
4.83M
35.5K
11.2K
3w ago
katesdating
Comment HEY and I’ll send you my free guide She sat next to him on purpose. He never noticed. The freeze isn’t shyness: it’s your nervous system reading “say hi” as danger. And from her side of the bench, silence just looks like a no. #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #approachanxiety #datingtips #datingcoach datingtips relationshipadvice datingusa nycdating londondating
Comment STORY and I’ll send you the free guide. 👇 Ladies, be honest: would you date a 5’7” guy you’re extremely attracted to… or a 6’3” guy you feel nothing for? Men — don’t answer this one. That’s the whole point. You already know most women pick the attractive 5’7”. Not because height is fake, but because attraction was never a height gate — it’s a sum. Height is one input, and “extremely attractive at 5’7”” already means the whole thing works. Here’s what actually sinks guys: not the inches — the story they tell themselves about the inches. If you’ve decided you know exactly how women rank height, you’re not reading her mind. You’re projecting your worst-case logic and calling it her opinion. Then you show up pre-rejected — defensive, apologetic, already halfway out the door — and that’s what she feels. Stop answering for her. Run the experiment, not the simulation. #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #datingconfidence #datingcoach
172K
2.03K
89
1w ago
katesdating
Comment STORY and I’ll send you the free guide. 👇 Ladies, be honest: would you date a 5’7” guy you’re extremely attracted to… or a 6’3” guy you feel nothing for? Men — don’t answer this one. That’s the whole point. You already know most women pick the attractive 5’7”. Not because height is fake, but because attraction was never a height gate — it’s a sum. Height is one input, and “extremely attractive at 5’7”” already means the whole thing works. Here’s what actually sinks guys: not the inches — the story they tell themselves about the inches. If you’ve decided you know exactly how women rank height, you’re not reading her mind. You’re projecting your worst-case logic and calling it her opinion. Then you show up pre-rejected — defensive, apologetic, already halfway out the door — and that’s what she feels. Stop answering for her. Run the experiment, not the simulation. #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #datingconfidence #datingcoach
We notice how you treat strangers before we decide how we feel about you. The waiter, the barista, the guy who bumped into you - that’s the tell. It’s not a coincidence you’re being tested. It’s how we read character when we don’t have enough information yet, so we watch what you do when you think it doesn’t matter. #datingadvice #datingtips #communicationskills #datingpsychology
149K
1.73K
62
3w ago
katesdating
We notice how you treat strangers before we decide how we feel about you. The waiter, the barista, the guy who bumped into you - that’s the tell. It’s not a coincidence you’re being tested. It’s how we read character when we don’t have enough information yet, so we watch what you do when you think it doesn’t matter. #datingadvice #datingtips #communicationskills #datingpsychology
90% of men kiss wrong, and she remembers every time. here’s the fix, coming from a woman. it’s not technique. it’s tension. slow down, pause before, and pull back first. #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #attraction #howtokiss
127K
2.63K
28
1mo ago
katesdating
90% of men kiss wrong, and she remembers every time. here’s the fix, coming from a woman. it’s not technique. it’s tension. slow down, pause before, and pull back first. #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #attraction #howtokiss
If you’re calling her “beautiful,” you’re not actually complimenting her… you’re commenting on something she was born with, that every stranger on the street could say too. Comment PERSONAL and I’ll send you my free guide on compliments that actually land 💬 #datingadvice #datingpsychology #datingtips #complimentgame #datingconfidence
126K
1.50K
80
3w ago
katesdating
If you’re calling her “beautiful,” you’re not actually complimenting her… you’re commenting on something she was born with, that every stranger on the street could say too. Comment PERSONAL and I’ll send you my free guide on compliments that actually land 💬 #datingadvice #datingpsychology #datingtips #complimentgame #datingconfidence
Comment TEXT and I’ll DM you my free guide — how to tell real interest from polite replies (and what to do with the difference). Stop chasing her for one second. Just one. If she likes you, she’ll find a reason to text you — a meme, a question, a “this reminded me of you.” Interest leaves evidence. And the reason you keep double-texting a “maybe” isn’t weakness. Inconsistent replies hook the brain harder than consistent ones — it’s the slot-machine effect: unpredictable rewards grip hardest. You’re not hooked on her. You’re hooked on the uncertainty. So read the pattern, not the message: who starts, who asks, who makes time. #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #approachanxiety #datingtips #datingcoach datingtips relationshipadvice datingusa nycdating londondating
105K
945
54
3w ago
katesdating
Comment TEXT and I’ll DM you my free guide — how to tell real interest from polite replies (and what to do with the difference). Stop chasing her for one second. Just one. If she likes you, she’ll find a reason to text you — a meme, a question, a “this reminded me of you.” Interest leaves evidence. And the reason you keep double-texting a “maybe” isn’t weakness. Inconsistent replies hook the brain harder than consistent ones — it’s the slot-machine effect: unpredictable rewards grip hardest. You’re not hooked on her. You’re hooked on the uncertainty. So read the pattern, not the message: who starts, who asks, who makes time. #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #approachanxiety #datingtips #datingcoach datingtips relationshipadvice datingusa nycdating londondating
Comment GUIDE and I’ll send you my free guide - the psychology of what actually makes someone magnetic. 👇 The most attractive thing about a man isn’t money. It’s not even confidence, really. It’s being genuinely happy without needing anyone’s approval to feel that way. Women notice the difference instantly — between a man enjoying his life, and a man performing for attention while hoping someone notices. You can’t fake this one. But you can build it — starting with actually having a life you don’t want to escape from. #datingadvice #datingpsychology #datingtipsformen #attractionpsychology
91.2K
1.42K
74
4w ago
katesdating
Comment GUIDE and I’ll send you my free guide - the psychology of what actually makes someone magnetic. 👇 The most attractive thing about a man isn’t money. It’s not even confidence, really. It’s being genuinely happy without needing anyone’s approval to feel that way. Women notice the difference instantly — between a man enjoying his life, and a man performing for attention while hoping someone notices. You can’t fake this one. But you can build it — starting with actually having a life you don’t want to escape from. #datingadvice #datingpsychology #datingtipsformen #attractionpsychology
📩 Free First-Date Conversation Guide → link in bio Follow @katesdating for psychology-backed dating advice. If your dates feel like job interviews — you’re the one holding the clipboard 📋 Question after question isn’t connection, it’s screening. We only open up when sharing goes both ways — so answer your own question first, then ask it. Tennis, not an interrogation. #firstdatetips #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #confidencetips #datingtips
90.9K
1.50K
66
2w ago
katesdating
📩 Free First-Date Conversation Guide → link in bio Follow @katesdating for psychology-backed dating advice. If your dates feel like job interviews — you’re the one holding the clipboard 📋 Question after question isn’t connection, it’s screening. We only open up when sharing goes both ways — so answer your own question first, then ask it. Tennis, not an interrogation. #firstdatetips #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #confidencetips #datingtips
she’s not going to tell you straight up. but she’s showing you constantly, you’re just reading the wrong signals 👀 coming from a woman, 7 signs she secretly likes you: 1️⃣ she remembers small things you said days ago 2️⃣ she finds reasons to touch your arm 3️⃣ she teases you 4️⃣ she goes quiet when you’re close (men always misread this one) 5️⃣ she asks real follow-up questions 6️⃣ she mirrors how you sit and talk 7️⃣ she mentions #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #bodylanguage #relationships #datingtips
89.7K
1.43K
24
1mo ago
katesdating
she’s not going to tell you straight up. but she’s showing you constantly, you’re just reading the wrong signals 👀 coming from a woman, 7 signs she secretly likes you: 1️⃣ she remembers small things you said days ago 2️⃣ she finds reasons to touch your arm 3️⃣ she teases you 4️⃣ she goes quiet when you’re close (men always misread this one) 5️⃣ she asks real follow-up questions 6️⃣ she mirrors how you sit and talk 7️⃣ she mentions #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #bodylanguage #relationships #datingtips
She didn’t lose interest overnight. Most of the time, attraction fades when a man starts making her his entire world too quickly. Keep your own life, your goals, and your routines. The right connection grows naturally—it doesn’t need pressure. What’s your opinion on this? #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #mensdating #datingtips #attraction
88.4K
1.03K
72
1mo ago
katesdating
She didn’t lose interest overnight. Most of the time, attraction fades when a man starts making her his entire world too quickly. Keep your own life, your goals, and your routines. The right connection grows naturally—it doesn’t need pressure. What’s your opinion on this? #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #mensdating #datingtips #attraction
Precision first, because this claim gets stolen constantly: I’m not saying be a jerk. Men who heard “women don’t want nice guys” and became unpleasant misread it badly. “Nice,” as usually performed, isn’t kindness — it’s compliance. It carries no information about you. A yes that had no no available is a reflex, not a yes. And it usually comes with an invoice: niceness as a deposit, resentment when it isn’t repaid. That’s the part women flinch from — not the kindness, the bill. Boundaries aren’t the opposite of kindness. They’re what makes it mean something. Kindness from a man with no limits is a factory setting. From a man who could have said no, it’s a decision. And if this is you: it’s probably not a character flaw. Accommodating everyone is usually learned early, around someone whose mood you had to manage. Expensive now, but very changeable. #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #niceguys #datingcoach
87.0K
1.58K
48
1w ago
katesdating
Precision first, because this claim gets stolen constantly: I’m not saying be a jerk. Men who heard “women don’t want nice guys” and became unpleasant misread it badly. “Nice,” as usually performed, isn’t kindness — it’s compliance. It carries no information about you. A yes that had no no available is a reflex, not a yes. And it usually comes with an invoice: niceness as a deposit, resentment when it isn’t repaid. That’s the part women flinch from — not the kindness, the bill. Boundaries aren’t the opposite of kindness. They’re what makes it mean something. Kindness from a man with no limits is a factory setting. From a man who could have said no, it’s a decision. And if this is you: it’s probably not a character flaw. Accommodating everyone is usually learned early, around someone whose mood you had to manage. Expensive now, but very changeable. #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #niceguys #datingcoach
yes, we test you. I’ll admit it 👀 but here’s what we’re actually checking for, and it’s not what you think. the psychology: a “test” isn’t a game, it’s a nervous system checking one question, are you safe to trust? 🔸 we’re not testing if you’ll obey, we’re testing if you’ll fold. push back on something small and cave instantly? that’s the fail. not because I wanted my way, because I wanted to see if you have one 🔸 we test how you handle a small no. a man who gets sulky over a tiny no shows me exactly how he’ll be in a year 🔸 we test your reaction when we’re upset. defensive, or steady? steady wins every time passing isn’t about being tough. it’s about not losing yourself the second I apply pressure. we’re not playing games. we’re checking if you’re safe to trust. save this one 🔖 #datingadviceformen #datingcoach #datingtips #relationshipadvice #datingusa nycdatinglondondating
85.1K
1.23K
90
1mo ago
katesdating
yes, we test you. I’ll admit it 👀 but here’s what we’re actually checking for, and it’s not what you think. the psychology: a “test” isn’t a game, it’s a nervous system checking one question, are you safe to trust? 🔸 we’re not testing if you’ll obey, we’re testing if you’ll fold. push back on something small and cave instantly? that’s the fail. not because I wanted my way, because I wanted to see if you have one 🔸 we test how you handle a small no. a man who gets sulky over a tiny no shows me exactly how he’ll be in a year 🔸 we test your reaction when we’re upset. defensive, or steady? steady wins every time passing isn’t about being tough. it’s about not losing yourself the second I apply pressure. we’re not playing games. we’re checking if you’re safe to trust. save this one 🔖 #datingadviceformen #datingcoach #datingtips #relationshipadvice #datingusa nycdatinglondondating
Here’s why some guys always seem to attract women without even trying. They’re not performing. Not angling for attention, not trying to look impressive — they’re just genuinely having fun with their own life. That’s what confidence actually says, underneath the surface: “I like my life with or without your attention.” Not “notice me.” Just... true, whether anyone’s watching or not. Men who understand this never have to chase. 👇 #datingadvice #mensdating #confidence #selflove #attraction
82.2K
1.25K
35
4w ago
katesdating
Here’s why some guys always seem to attract women without even trying. They’re not performing. Not angling for attention, not trying to look impressive — they’re just genuinely having fun with their own life. That’s what confidence actually says, underneath the surface: “I like my life with or without your attention.” Not “notice me.” Just... true, whether anyone’s watching or not. Men who understand this never have to chase. 👇 #datingadvice #mensdating #confidence #selflove #attraction
Agree or disagree? 👇 (comment PARTNER and I’ll send you the free guide on this) Your girlfriend should NOT be your best friend. Hear me out. Being close is beautiful. The problem is when she’s your best friend and your therapist and your only hobby and your entire social life. That’s not one relationship — that’s five full-time jobs handed to one person. No human can carry all of that. So the weight turns into pressure, and pressure is the opposite of romance. When she has to be your everything, she stops getting to be your partner — and you slowly stop being someone she’s drawn to and start being someone she’s responsible for. Desire needs a little space to live. A person with their own friends, their own outlet, their own life is someone worth missing. Someone who’s poured their whole world into you is someone to worry about. Love her like a partner. Build the rest of the village somewhere else. #relationshipadvice #datingpsychology #healthyrelationships #datingadviceformen
79.3K
1.16K
66
1w ago
katesdating
Agree or disagree? 👇 (comment PARTNER and I’ll send you the free guide on this) Your girlfriend should NOT be your best friend. Hear me out. Being close is beautiful. The problem is when she’s your best friend and your therapist and your only hobby and your entire social life. That’s not one relationship — that’s five full-time jobs handed to one person. No human can carry all of that. So the weight turns into pressure, and pressure is the opposite of romance. When she has to be your everything, she stops getting to be your partner — and you slowly stop being someone she’s drawn to and start being someone she’s responsible for. Desire needs a little space to live. A person with their own friends, their own outlet, their own life is someone worth missing. Someone who’s poured their whole world into you is someone to worry about. Love her like a partner. Build the rest of the village somewhere else. #relationshipadvice #datingpsychology #healthyrelationships #datingadviceformen
📩 Free guide “Steady Wins” → link in bio Follow @katesdating for psychology-backed dating advice. If she likes you — stop making it harder. Mixed signals don’t build attraction, they build anxiety. Going cold, acting “mysterious”, testing her — that’s fear dressed as strategy. Consistency is what lets attraction grow. Genuine beats games. Every time. #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #mixedsignals #relationshipadvice #datingtips
64.2K
1.15K
32
2w ago
katesdating
📩 Free guide “Steady Wins” → link in bio Follow @katesdating for psychology-backed dating advice. If she likes you — stop making it harder. Mixed signals don’t build attraction, they build anxiety. Going cold, acting “mysterious”, testing her — that’s fear dressed as strategy. Consistency is what lets attraction grow. Genuine beats games. Every time. #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #mixedsignals #relationshipadvice #datingtips
Comment EQUAL and I’ll send you my free guide. 👇 Controversial take: a short guy with confidence beats a tall guy with no personality. But be honest — what if they’ve got the same personality? Then the tall guy wins, right? Yeah. All else equal, height’s an edge. Any coach who swears otherwise is selling you something. Here’s the catch: all else is never equal. “Personality” isn’t a fixed amount two guys both happen to have. Presence, confidence, how safe and seen you make her feel — that’s a variable, and it swings attraction way harder than a few inches. The “tall guy with your exact presence” is a thought experiment. In the wild, he doesn’t exist. So stop competing on the one thing you can’t train. Height is fixed. Presence isn’t. The whole game is making “all else” unequal — in your favor — and most guys never even try. #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #confidence #datingcoach
54.7K
467
40
1w ago
katesdating
Comment EQUAL and I’ll send you my free guide. 👇 Controversial take: a short guy with confidence beats a tall guy with no personality. But be honest — what if they’ve got the same personality? Then the tall guy wins, right? Yeah. All else equal, height’s an edge. Any coach who swears otherwise is selling you something. Here’s the catch: all else is never equal. “Personality” isn’t a fixed amount two guys both happen to have. Presence, confidence, how safe and seen you make her feel — that’s a variable, and it swings attraction way harder than a few inches. The “tall guy with your exact presence” is a thought experiment. In the wild, he doesn’t exist. So stop competing on the one thing you can’t train. Height is fixed. Presence isn’t. The whole game is making “all else” unequal — in your favor — and most guys never even try. #datingadviceformen #datingpsychology #confidence #datingcoach
Comment GUIDE - I’ll send my free guide. Real psychology, no scripts. If she starts asking you random questions, she’s not bored — she’s checking if she can imagine a future with you. “What’s your family like,” “do you cook,” “what’s your Sunday like” — that’s not small talk. That’s her running a quiet compatibility check, seeing if you fit into a life, not just a conversation. #datingadvice #datingtips #datingpsychology #communicationskills
45.6K
292
22
3w ago
katesdating
Comment GUIDE - I’ll send my free guide. Real psychology, no scripts. If she starts asking you random questions, she’s not bored — she’s checking if she can imagine a future with you. “What’s your family like,” “do you cook,” “what’s your Sunday like” — that’s not small talk. That’s her running a quiet compatibility check, seeing if you fit into a life, not just a conversation. #datingadvice #datingtips #datingpsychology #communicationskills
The way you hold eye contact says more than your words ever will. Most guys either avoid it (reads as nervous) or overdo it (reads as intense). The sweet spot: hold it a beat longer than feels natural when she’s talking, then let a smile break it. That tiny pause signals calm confidence — your nervous system isn’t rushing to look away. It’s such a small habit, but it changes how present you seem in a conversation. Comment EYE and I’ll send you my free guide on reading attraction signals 👀 #datingadvice #datingpsychology #eyecontacttips #datingconfidence #attractiontips
45.4K
561
39
3w ago
katesdating
The way you hold eye contact says more than your words ever will. Most guys either avoid it (reads as nervous) or overdo it (reads as intense). The sweet spot: hold it a beat longer than feels natural when she’s talking, then let a smile break it. That tiny pause signals calm confidence — your nervous system isn’t rushing to look away. It’s such a small habit, but it changes how present you seem in a conversation. Comment EYE and I’ll send you my free guide on reading attraction signals 👀 #datingadvice #datingpsychology #eyecontacttips #datingconfidence #attractiontips
3 icks that make me lose interest instantly 😬 you won’t even know you did it. I will. 🚩 being rude to the waiter — that’s not a small thing, that’s the whole thing 💸 announcing what everything cost — the announcement IS the ick 😅 “are you mad at me?” x3 in one night — anxiety is contagious none of these make you a bad guy. but they end it fast. #dating #datingadvice #greenflags #standards #fyp
44.9K
1.26K
29
1mo ago
katesdating
3 icks that make me lose interest instantly 😬 you won’t even know you did it. I will. 🚩 being rude to the waiter — that’s not a small thing, that’s the whole thing 💸 announcing what everything cost — the announcement IS the ick 😅 “are you mad at me?” x3 in one night — anxiety is contagious none of these make you a bad guy. but they end it fast. #dating #datingadvice #greenflags #standards #fyp
Comment PACE and I’ll send you my free guide on building real attraction without the chase. If you’re doing 100% of the texting, you’re not building attraction. You’re building pressure. The biggest early mistake isn’t saying the wrong thing — it’s chasing before there’s anything to chase. When you carry every text, plan every step, and close every gap, it feels like showing interest. What it actually does is remove her chance to show hers. Here’s the mechanism: attraction needs a little space to grow into. People value what they invest in — and if you’re supplying 100% of the effort, she never gets to invest, so nothing compounds on her side. Worse, constant pursuit reads as need, and need quietly shifts the power in the exchange until she feels chased instead of curious. This isn’t about playing games, going cold, or waiting three days to reply. It’s simpler and more honest than that: match her energy instead of doubling it. When she gives, you give. When she goes quiet, you let a little space exist — not as a tactic, but because you actually have a life to be in. The goal isn’t to pull back to manipulate. It’s to leave room for something mutual to form. Attraction grows in the space you stop filling. #datingadvice #datingpsychology #textingtips #attraction #katesdating
44.6K
880
35
2d ago
katesdating
Comment PACE and I’ll send you my free guide on building real attraction without the chase. If you’re doing 100% of the texting, you’re not building attraction. You’re building pressure. The biggest early mistake isn’t saying the wrong thing — it’s chasing before there’s anything to chase. When you carry every text, plan every step, and close every gap, it feels like showing interest. What it actually does is remove her chance to show hers. Here’s the mechanism: attraction needs a little space to grow into. People value what they invest in — and if you’re supplying 100% of the effort, she never gets to invest, so nothing compounds on her side. Worse, constant pursuit reads as need, and need quietly shifts the power in the exchange until she feels chased instead of curious. This isn’t about playing games, going cold, or waiting three days to reply. It’s simpler and more honest than that: match her energy instead of doubling it. When she gives, you give. When she goes quiet, you let a little space exist — not as a tactic, but because you actually have a life to be in. The goal isn’t to pull back to manipulate. It’s to leave room for something mutual to form. Attraction grows in the space you stop filling. #datingadvice #datingpsychology #textingtips #attraction #katesdating

Kate | Dating Psychologist (@katesdating) Instagram Stats & Analytics

Kate | Dating Psychologist (@katesdating) has 57.8K Instagram followers with a 1.14% engagement rate over the past 12 months. Across 54.0 posts, Kate | Dating Psychologist received 70.6K total likes and 7.32M impressions, averaging 1.31K likes per post. This page tracks Kate | Dating Psychologist's performance metrics, top content, and engagement trends — updated daily.

Kate | Dating Psychologist (@katesdating) Instagram Analytics FAQ

How many Instagram followers does Kate | Dating Psychologist have?+
Kate | Dating Psychologist (@katesdating) has 57.8K Instagram followers as of August 2026.
What is Kate | Dating Psychologist's Instagram engagement rate?+
Kate | Dating Psychologist's Instagram engagement rate is 1.14% over the last 12 months, based on 54.0 posts.
How many likes does Kate | Dating Psychologist get on Instagram?+
Kate | Dating Psychologist received 70.6K total likes across 54.0 posts in the last 12 months, averaging 1.31K likes per post.
How many Instagram impressions does Kate | Dating Psychologist get?+
Kate | Dating Psychologist's Instagram content generated 7.32M total impressions over the last 12 months.